earth.goat wrote:
I can not wait until my business builds! I want to start an anti Massage Envy website so consumers can know the Sweatshop like conditions. Sorry to be negative, but it is the truth.
Hi EG
I'm really sorry that you're having such an awful experience. I joined several message boards for MTs much like this one before I finished school and heard all kinds of horror stories about different work places & venues, and that is exactly what fueled me to open my own practice the day I got my temp license and NOT work for anyone else. (The owner of the massage school I went to eventually convinced me to work at the school clinic on a IC/renter combo arrangement, but I never did more than 4 half-days per week there and now I'm down to 1 day a week, which may be disappearing soon, due to proposed changes in the contracts.)
If I can offer some unsolicited advice

I would say go ahead and quit ME altogether, if you can. The reason I say that? I used to work Wed thru Sat at the school's clinic, in a similar position to yours (though not quite as bad). My plan was to work there until I got my private practice built, too. Various circumstances forced me to gradually drop one day at a time, each time before I had clients built up for that day. It wasn't UNTIL I dropped those days that the clients called, though. After I dropped those days at the clinic and was available at my private practice, THEN the clients started calling--and very soon after I stopped that weekday at the clinic. Now I'm just down to 1 day a week. So, if you're in a position to simply walk away (or at least decrease your schedule), try it, and you may very well find that people may miraculously find you. And if you're not in a financial position to do so, maybe you might want to try dropping a day or two per week anyway--it's great motivation in building your practice
You can do it! You are definitely worth it. The people who own and manage ME have never been therapists before and have NO CLUE what it's like. They could visit this board and read what we have to say, or they could GET a massage, all they want--and they'd still never have a clue. You don't know till you DO it, and they haven't. Thus, what right do they have to control you? None, unless you let them. So don't. There are plenty of other places out there to work who will compensate you more fairly for YOUR skills, YOUR time, YOUR creativity, YOUR license, and allow you more of a life outside of work, wherewhich you can build your own clientele with more energy and dignity than ME will allow you to retain.
We're all behind you. Go for it!
Hugs,
~Jyoti