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rachrocks wrote:First, I want to thank you both for your input and support. You gave me a solid starting point on what to say and helped me find the strength to deal with this. I find confrontation to be extremely difficult and always want to believe the best of people which sometimes, like in this case, causes me to overlook the negative warning signs at my own expense.
I found myself wanting to wait to contact him until tomorrow as it's a holiday weekend and he has family around but then I realized that once again I was prolonging my suffering to spare him the discomfort and possible embarrassment! He obviously never gave me the same respect! I didn't do anything wrong and I'd had enough! So, as per your great advice, I wrote down what I was going to say and called his cell phone. He didn't answer so I left a message. I realize now that I probably should have asked him to call me back but my adrenaline was pumping and I just wanted to get it over with. If his wife hears it-oh,well. She should probably know anyway- again, I did nothing wrong. If I do end up losing clients, than they aren't the type of clients I want anyway.
Here's what I said minus the names : "Hello ****, This is (me). After your massage Saturday I found ejaculate on the table linens. I consider this to be an act of perpetration and have a zero tolerance policy for this type of behavior. Therefore, I will no longer provide you with massage therapy and any further contact from you will be viewed as harassment and handled accordingly. I was gracious enough to wait until today to notify you but too disturbed to wait any longer. I trust you understand and will comply." I then hung up. He called me a few minutes later but I didn't pick up. He didn't leave a message. So he either had yet to hear the message I left or chose to not respect me once again. In any case, I do hope this is over. Today I stopped being a victim and took my power back! Thank you so much for helping me do so.
again, I did nothing wrong. If I do end up losing clients, than they aren't the type of clients I want anyway.
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