Yes, sometimes it's unavoidable and always upsetting and disturbing when it happens, but to automatically assume that an entire gender acts a certain way after you witness a handful of scenarios is incredulous. That's like saying all Russians are spies, all San Franciscans are gay, all Americans are dumb, or all Republicans think global warming is a myth. Simply incredulous.
I haven't had a client come on to me in years, and I work in a community with a high degree of interest in and acceptance of massage with a sexual component. I eventually learned how not to be of interest to folks looking for that.
Just to let you know, I've quoted you on this in conversation. I've also used a variant of this for men who feel that it's "improper" to receive a THERAPEUTIC (I can't stress that word enough) massage from woman. I don't know how many minds it's changed, but it's made people think.tiger snacks wrote:"No! I demand a female to teach me how to walk again! He might....RAPE me!"