Did't like how spa treated me

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Did't like how spa treated me

Post by Rubmyster » Mon Nov 02, 2009 7:48 am

Happy Monday after Halloween,
I had applied and been hired at a local hotel/spa. I was looking for more work after my practice had slowed down. I had worked for a spa years ago and left after finding it wasn't my cup of tea. Well, things sure haven't changed for me.
After being hired and attending one training, the lead therapist asked me to call her for more training and to talk about the schedule. After three weeks of no return calls, I called the manager. It turns out the MT lied and said that she returned every call. I was shocked and I instantly quit. :roll:
I had forgotten how poor the communication, integrity and professionalism is in a spa. Men are discriminated against, have much less work, and the pay is so bad. :irked:
So, I'm going to stay with what I know. I would rather work for myself and take a chance, I sure won't make this mistake again.
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Rubmster
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Re: Did't like how spa treated me

Post by squash_blsm » Mon Nov 02, 2009 12:10 pm

So just be grateful to the Universe for making sure that you did not take the job for real.
Real bad karma for that lead MT though. :confused:

When we make decisions from our head rather than our heart we tend to ignore the messages that we really need to listen to.
You KNEW that this wasn't the right kind of job for you.
But you took it anyway - even if it was only going to be temporary.

So -
congratulations!!
:grin:
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Re: Did't like how spa treated me

Post by cabwy » Thu Nov 05, 2009 1:40 pm

Awww, Rubmyster,,, I am sorry to hear this. But I guess this spa wasn't where you were supposed to be!
Just a thought,, are there any smaller massage therapy clinics around your area that might be hiring. I think smaller might be more manageable??

Just a thought....
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Re: Did't like how spa treated me

Post by JasonE » Thu Nov 05, 2009 10:48 pm

cabwy wrote:Awww, Rubmyster,,, I am sorry to hear this. But I guess this spa wasn't where you were supposed to be!
Just a thought,, are there any smaller massage therapy clinics around your area that might be hiring. I think smaller might be more manageable??

Just a thought....
Depends on who's doing the managing... ;)
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